Belgium passport

Hi,
I am a student from UK who got married to a Belgium national last January 2010 that lives and work here in Belgium. I am studying in UK and work there part time. I studied Flemish here in Belgium for 3 months and and find it very hard. I am finishing my course in UK and now I will be forced to come to Belgium because of immigration restrictions. Since he does not work in UK I have restrictions in staying in UK. I was told that when I get my Belgium passport it will be much easier for me in UK. I work in a hospital as a nursing assistant and it will be very hard for me to find the same job in Belgium because of language barrier. I will be lucky if I do not end up packing potatoes here. I am afraid that my situation will make me very unhappy living in Belgium. We are happy having 2 home UK and Belgium I come and visit Belgium as often as I can once a month the least. I spend xmas and new year in Belgium if I can and attend to bdays of my in laws. I would like to know how long should I wait to have this Belgium passport. Is my working in UK and travels in Belgium and his travels in UK our joint bank account in UK not enough to show our family ties. I hope someone can enlighten me about my situation. I just want to be happily married without anyone of us sacrificing our most love careers. Thanks